An Exercise in Subtly Confrontational Self-Defense

The soccer publication is oddly tedious, yet oddly compelling. Even title causes confusion. The Dear England title currently names a popular play, an forthcoming TV show, and a national address written by the manager in 2021.

This version of Dear England is not formally connected to any of those. It represents an oddity in the expanding Dear England universe, a volume about management: a classically dry elite football manager theme that Southgate sticks to relentlessly, using the words “leadership”, “leading” or “leadership” at least 500 times across 336 pages.

Questions Posed

“Who are the leaders? What actions do leaders take? What insights do leaders have?” he asks in the opening, setting out his position, but stopping short to ask “When are leaders?”, themes likely saved for a future volume.

Additionally, this book has a significant gap at its core. It’s an attempt in indirectly hostile self-defense, in nearly but not entirely stating the underlying truth, hopping adeptly from unresolved issue to fresh pain across a series of graphs, business clichés and references about 16th-century statesmen.

Reading Experience

Going through the book is like listening to your family members having a polite but profoundly personal debate in the next room while you’re striving to pay attention on a business seminar called “Countless Explanations for My Eventual Success”. But it is also difficult to put down, as Southgate keeps coming close to an issue you truly want to hear about, before abruptly shifting focus.

Insights

Readers will find always attention-grabbing disclosures in works in this genre, explained by the intense interest with England managerdom. The most notable ones encompass: Southgate resolved he was certainly going to quit as England manager after fans hurled cups at him at the tournament; he nearly decided to abandoning the game at the interval against Bulgaria in 2019 after his squad members were targeted with slurs; he pioneered the idea of dedicated restart experts and all teams in the English football is now following his lead; he has now lost his passion for soccer, a startling admission casually mentioned in a single paragraph at the end.

Leading England through a period of fury, hope, political ferment and lockdown was a harsh ordeal. The scars are clearly still raw.

Commonplace Material

In other sections, the content is saturated with an robotic linguistic mush of generic leadership chat. Advanced copies of this book were provided with journalists under secrecy pacts ahead of launch, probably out of concern someone might leak that “challenging discussions can, by their very essence, be tough”, that you should always think before you act, that management takes place where evolution combines with empathy.

Genuine Feeling

There is nevertheless genuine sentiment present. Guiding England through a era of fury, aspiration, upheaval and lockdown was a harsh ordeal. The wounds are clearly still fresh, even if presented in a terminology-heavy reinvention of the traditional leader narrative: demonstrating my accuracy about all matters from the start.

Detailed Instances

Even book’s introductory section, Trojan-horsed as exciting recollections of the championship match of the European Championship, is completely dedicated to how effective the manager in fact was at tactical substitutions (the big criticism of Southgate being he wasn’t good at substitutes). Subsequently, he explores extensive analysis about how he handled the deciding game of 2021 flawlessly – specifically the losing penalty shootout – because he adhered to a set protocol, which suggests that introducing inexperienced squad members in the closing stages to take the crucial kick of their lives was sensible and accurate.

This was validated by a victorious penalty decider against Switzerland at a later tournament after a fixture where England spent the entire match looking as if they were attempting to don a sweater the backwards. “The control we exerted in that shootout was simply exhilarating,” he notes, amid equating the display to US Navy Seals eliminating Osama bin Laden. Oh Gareth.

Missed Opportunities

On the occasions we come near to a revelation, the manager withdraws from identifying individuals or providing the substance. We learn there were challenging England players who insisted on more focus, possibly because they were indulged early in their careers. But as you lean forward eagerly, the author is already veering off into something named a leadership concept, which asserts that rather than a collection of attributes or ideals, team environment is in fact a phenomenon that is developed by, alas, enough, no more.

Highlights

Included in the stronger parts are when the author writes about the incremental method of building fortitude in youth, or how he sought to articulate what it means to be English more clearly and more positively than anyone else in the limelight. Best of all, there is a genuinely gripping account of that distressing match in the Bulgarian capital where England’s black players were subjected to vile treatment (and afterwards defended vigorously by their leader).

Genuine Ending

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